How to Have a Man Fall in Love With Your Personality...!

 

Women don't realize that their personality can become their strongest power over men. Men are attracted by women that have unique characteristics and personality. No man will be attracted to a woman who is a complainer, and generally have bad attitude. Also, a man doesn't like a woman who is a controller in nature. Remember that men don't want to be controlled by anyone.

So, if you want to make a man fall in love with you, do it from your personality. Develop an attractive personality and the right man will be attracted to you. You must be aware that your personality will only attract the man who is suitable for that personality. For instance, if you are moody in nature, you'll attract a temperamental person. Or, at least you'll attract a jerk. If you don't want this to happen to you, then change it.

If you have a kind and gentle personality, you'll attract to yourself a man who will respect you and admire you. It's about having a positive personality and showing it to the world. However, don't be showy in doing that. You don't want them to think negatively about you, even if you think that you're showing them good personality.

In developing a good personality, you need one thing called habit. To be blunt, habit is the single factor that will shape your personality. A good habit will bring forth a good personality. A bad habit will bring forth bad personality. So, obviously one thing that you need to do--for starter--is to change your habit into good habit.

First of all, you need to examine the habits that you have. List all good habits and bad habits that you think you have in your life. Don't be shy and don't lie to yourself. Face yourself in the light of truth. Write whatever good habits and bad habits that you do in your life in a blank note. Write until you can't think another habit.

After writing a list of habits that you have, next you need to make sure to read the list that you've written. Those good habits are the habits that you need to keep in your life. Preferably, you need to do those habits more often. And the bad habits that you've written are the habits that you need to avoid and throw away from your life.

The key is to be aware of what you're doing in any given moment. If you catch yourself doing bad habit, you should remind yourself that this will not be good for your personality. It's the same when you catch yourself doing good habit. You should appreciate yourself because you're developing good personality. In this way, you can progress in creating an attractive personality that will get any man fall in love with you.

Do you know the 4types of love?

 

Love - a single word that holds a lot of meaning and power. And while it brings joy and gratitude to anyone who hears it, this can also cause confusion. When you say "I love my mother," "I love my cat" or "I love my work," it does not necessarily mean that you are feeling the same or equal amount of love for these three different things that you "love". Given that love is more of a choice and action than a just a feeling, your actions of love may also be according to different degrees. So, what are the types of love and how do they differ from each other?

Agape

First on the list of the types of love is agape. Agape is actually what contemporary Greek refers to as "unconditional love", or a love that IS love, like in the phrase s'agapo, meaning, "I love you". During the ancient Greek, the word actually referred to "true love's" deepest sense, instead of the simple attraction. This is even used for describing the contented feeling or putting someone in a very high regard. Agape is used for expressing the unconditional love given by God to all His creations.

Eros

The passionate love that is combined with longing and sensual desire, eros is something taken from "erotas" or "intimate love." But it does not necessarily mean that eros is a love that is sexual by nature. You can interpret this as the love you have for someone who is more than a friend to you. Out of the types of love, this one is best fit for marriage and dating relationships.

Philia

Modern Greek defines philia as affectionate love or friendship. Among the different types of love, this one is dispassionate and virtuous love, the concept of which has been developed by none other than Aristotle. This includes the loyalty to family, friends, community and calls for equality, familiarity and virtue.

Storge

Storge, the last in the list of the types of love, pertains to affection in both modern and ancient Greek. This is a kind of natural affection as what parents feel for their children. Storge has rarely been used in the ancient works, almost solely to describe the relationships in a family. Ancient texts used the term for denoting the feelings parents feel for their children or a husband and wife's feeling for one another. This is also being used for expressing putting up or accepting situations, like "loving a tyrant."

Other Types of Love in This World

There are basically only four major types of love but there are still others emotions that ought to be acknowledged as well. And while these emotions are not love they are commonly mistaken for love prematurely. The first of which is crush. First crushes are really memorable, as this is when you experience some somersaults inside your stomach. Surely we all know that somewhat stupid grin on your face each time your crush passes by. What an amazing rush!

You also have the so-called obsessive, or that kind of love that borders on being too clingy. This kind of feeling is not considered as healthy because it can give you the tendency to manipulate your partner's life that may then lead to them leaving you altogether. More often than not, this kind of emotion is being experienced by novice lovers or those who have "fallen in love" for the first time. Scared and insecure, obsessive lovers tend to go so overboard that their relationships usually end because of it.

Last and definitely the most painful kind of love is unrequited love, or loving even if you know that the other person can never love you back. Full of pains and heartaches, this love is unfortunately one sided and although you might be in a relationship, chances are you will never get the happiness that you wish for because you know that the love you can give does not equal the love that you will receive by far.

The four major types of love and the other feelings mentioned are all essential and as the old saying goes, they make the world go round. Without these, there is no way for people to express how they feel about others and tell these people how much they mean to them. They will never be able to show what they want to show, and learn the things that they need to learn. Love teaches people a lot of things and without it, life might as well be considered as incomplete.

The different types of love might technically differ in meaning but at the end of the day, what is important is that we know how to love, not just ourselves but also others, especially God who love us more than we deserve.

Relation, "an aspect or quality (as resemblance or causality) that connects two or more things or parts as being or belonging or working together, as being of the same kind, or as being logically connected."

Why Do You Continue Going On With Someone Who You KNOW Isn't for You?

She "fell in love" after having had "a hard time behind her". And soon enough he became very significant for her. And soon enough he decided they should move in together. And soon enough he began to "advise" her "how to do her life", what activities to get involved with, which friends to see or not see, how often to call sick at work, and so on and so forth.

Why do people stay in a relationship which isn't good?Deep inside she felt he is not for her! Deep inside she knew something is wrong! But she kept being with him, following his "advice", letting him decide almost everything related to her and to them. During the months they spent together she became more and more frustrated, more and more disillusioned and angrier. Still, she stayed in the relationship. And she might have stayed there longer, if it wasn't him who left her for another woman...

This woman's story is not a-typical. It might have happened to you, or to people you know. It is a story which happens often, and is often the theme of a novel or a movie. But if such a story happened to you, the fact that it is not a-typical shouldn't comfort you. What might concern you is the question: what has made you fall for someone like that and for a relationship like that?

In case it has happened once in your life-time, this is one thing. But in case you often find yourself in similar situations, you may want to ask yourself: What's going on here? What attracts me to people who aren't for me? And, most important: What makes me hand on to such people and in such relationships?

Confronting your fears and needs is important

It is only when you ask yourself these questions and are willing to take a closer look at yourself that you can realize what makes you behave in self-sabotaging and self-hurting ways. It might well be that you are driven by uncontrolled needs for love and attention; by the fear of being alone; or by a bottomless neediness to be in a relationship in order to "prove" to yourself that you are desirable, attractive and/or good company (which might help you deal with self-esteem issues).

Whatever the reason for your "falling in love" with people who aren't for you and for "sticking on" with them, it is highly probable that you are frustrated, angry, sad, disillusioned, and insecure about the way you "do" life and relationships.

Why is Self-Awareness is the solution?

In order to figure out the reason for your emotional and behavioral patterns, you may want to consider developing your Self-Awareness. That means, getting in touch with whatever it is It is when you develop your awareness and get in touch with a host of factors which exert power of you, that you can begin to change you attitudes and behaviors and become able to find, develop and maintain a healthy and satisfying relationship.